Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Yule


Merry Yule!

 
"The Dark" - Mary Grigolia

Oh the darkness takes courage, the darkness takes time.

Living in the darkness brings a different state of mind,

the darkness knows healing, the darkness knows change.

Oh Mother darkness, I return to you again.

 

 

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Winter Solstice


This year the Winter Solstice falls on December 21 for the Midwest USA, under the waxing moon u.  If you're in the South it is Midsummer, I will post on that in our June.  For many traditions, the Yule is 12 nights and the Winter Solstice is 1 night.  Personally, like many of my main blessings, I use three marks to honor the day - past, present and future.  I start the night before on the 20th at sunset (4:20 pm).  I use it as the Mother's Night for the ancestors.  On Winter Solstice the 21st at sunrise (7:20 am), the present moment.  Ending with the 21st at the end of twilight (5 pm), the future.
Mother's Night is the first day of Yule.  I start it with lighting a candle next to my Yule Log.  (Don't leave flames alone!)  All this year has been guided by Frigg, mothers, grandmothers and other Ancestors o .  It is a time of the year when our deceased Ancestors are closest to us; this is when the dead are more active than any other time.   We all have worked hard and produced much over the years.  But now is a time to do something else, to reap the rewards.  Take a break.  Go look at the stars, listen to the wind, feel the warmth of the candle, warm the prayer beads or just touch someone.  Remember who you have been, your ancestors and the natural world.

The second part is the sunrise on the day.  It is a time to reflect where you are now.  Clean your alter, taking items outside to meet the rising Sun Sunna s.  Say thanks to her for returning, offer a sacrifice - food, mead or blessed oil.  Honor the beginning of the Sun's return and the breaking of Winter.  Do something today for others.  Have compassion for the homeless with food and clothing.  Go down to the animal shelter and help feed the lost pets.  Exchange gifts, even with strangers.  Tell your family and friends you love them.  Live today in the present moment - for yourself and family.

Finally close the holiday at twilight.  Hopefully you have taken stock of the past year and are beginning to think about the next year and what you would like to accomplish.  Resolutions are promises made to try and accomplish something, a training tool.  An oath is binding, fail an oath is to lose yourself.  Tonight I write down oaths under the Moon Manni d.  I then offer them up to Freyr along with the Yule Log burning for Thor.  When lighting the new Yule Log it should be with the charred remains of the previous year's log, which is keep to guard the house.  Usually my Yule log burns for a few days into the New Year.  May your New Year be filled with happiness, wealth and health.

But there are many names to this holiday and many ways to celebrate it.

 

 

Note from Silver Book of Shadows...

For people of nearly any religious background, the time of the Winter Solstice (about December 20) is a time when we gather with family and loved ones.  For Pagans and Wiccans, it's often celebrated as Yule (Jul), but there are literally dozens of ways you can enjoy the season.  Words during this night are said to bear great weight and power.  It is a time to count blessings, take stock and lay a course for the future.

Yule is celebrated on the winter solstice, the longest night of the year.  It is one of three greatest blessings of the year.  The date for Christmas was chosen by the roman Emperor Aurelian in the third century, to coincide with the feast of the Unconquered Sun.  So, for both these feasts, we see a strong association with the power of the Sun. Many pagan traditions were incorporated in the Christmas feast.  Boniface introduced the Christmas tree, which was a Germanic tradition. Also, Santa Claus is a blend of St. Nikolas and the God Odin.

Celebrations of the Norse New Year, a festival of 12 nights (Yule), is the most important of all the Norse holidays. On the night of December 20, the God Freyr rides over the Earth on the back of his shining boar, bringing light and love back into the World. In later years, after the influence of Christianity, the God Baldur, then Jesus, was reborn at this festival.

Yule signifies the beginning and end of all things; the darkest time (shortest hour of daylight) during the year and the brightest hope re-entering the World.  During this festival, the Wild Hunt is at its greatest energy and the dead are said to roam the Earth. The God Odin is the leader of this Wild Ride; charging across the sky on his eight-legged horse, Sleipnir.  In ancient times, Germanic and Norse children would leave their boots out by the hearth on Solstice Eve, filled with hay and sugar, for Sleipnir's journey.  In return, Odin would leave them a gift for their kindness.  In modern times, Sleipnir was changed to a reindeer and the grey-bearded Odin became the kindly Santa Claus or Father Christmas.
North is associated with the sacred element Earth, the season of winter, night and death. An altar may be placed to the North during rituals associated with honoring spirits of the dead, Dark Goddesses, observing winter holidays or during the dark moon.  Some symbols for North Earth are the fertile land, soil, hands, evergreens or mountains. Colors commonly associated with North are black, green or brown.  For Wiccans, the altar tool known as a pentacle, a disc inscribed with a pentagram, represents the North.

Seek Justice, equity and compassion in human relations.  Justice is a concept of moral rightness based on ethics, rationality, law, natural law, religion, or equity, along with the punishment of the breach of said ethics; justice is the act of being just and/or fair.  Understandings of justice differ in every culture, as cultures are usually dependent upon a shared history, mythology and/or religion. Each culture's ethics create values which influence the notion of justice. Although there can be found some justice principles that are one and the same in all or most of the cultures.  The Tiwaz Rune t is balance and justice ruled from a higher rationality. Tiwaz is a warrior rune named after the God Tyr who is the Northern God of law and justice.  The rune of sacrifice of the individual (self) for well-being of the whole (society).

"True peace is not merely the absence of tension: it is the presence of justice." - Martin Luther King

 

Candles

Encourage light in times of darkness. This light is represented in various ways: the unconquered sun, the star of Bethlehem or simply by the ritual use of candles. Burning candles throughout the night is a practice of both Pagans and Christians. Christians still perform a midnight mass, a symbol of keeping the light burning in the darkest of the night. Pagans let candles burn all night long to give strength to the Sun on the longest night of the year.

 

Welcome Back the Sun

The ancients knew that the Winter Solstice was the longest night of the year -- and that meant that the Sun was beginning its long journey back towards Earth.  It was a time of celebration and for rejoicing in the knowledge that soon, the warm days of spring would return and the dormant Earth would come back to life. In most Wiccan groups or covens, Yule marks the rebirth of the Great God in the form of the solstice sun.  On this one day, the sun stands still in the sky and everyone on Earth knows that change is coming.

Sunrise

The sun returns! The light returns!
The earth begins to warm once more!
The time of darkness has passed,
and a path of light begins the new day.
Welcome, welcome, the heat of the sun,
blessing us all with its rays.


Sunset


The longest night has come once more,
the sun has set, and darkness fallen.
The trees are bare, the earth asleep,
and the skies are cold and black.
Yet tonight we rejoice, in this longest night,
embracing the darkness that enfolds us.
We welcome the night and all that it holds,
as the light of the stars shines down.




Gift Giving


The exchanging of gifts is one of the core aspects of the modern Christmas celebration, making the Christmas season the most profitable time of year for retailers and businesses throughout the World. Gift giving was common in the Roman celebration of Saturnalia, an ancient festival which took place in late December and may have influenced Christmas customs. On Christmas, Christians exchange gifts on the basis that the tradition is associated St. Nicholas with Christmas and that gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh were given to the infant Jesus by the Biblical Magi.


 

Yule Log

Yule was an indigenous midwinter (Winter Solstice) festival celebrated by the Germanic peoples, absorbed into celebrations surrounding Christmas over time with Christianization.  If your family enjoys ritual, you can welcome back the sun at Yule with this simple winter ceremony. The first thing you'll need is a Yule Log. If you make it a week or two in advance, you can enjoy it as a centerpiece prior to burning it in the ceremony.  For some Norse sects, Yule logs were lit to honor Thor, the God of thunder. Feasting would continue until the log burned out, three or as many as twelve days.  You'll need a fire, so if you can do this ritual outside.  Jumping over the flames brings luck and purification.  This rite is one the whole family can do together. 

 

Solstice Evergreen

Another ancient midwinter custom is decorating with evergreens to represent Yggdrasil. The Romans decorated with rosemary, bay, laurel, holly, ivy and mistletoe. The holly and ivy were both important midwinter plants in Great Britain and Ireland, as seen in the mysterious medieval carol which mentions the rivalry between them.  The Norsemen had a tradition that enemies who met under a bough of mistletoe were obligated to lay down their weapons.  (There is an interesting tale told about the Death of Baldur that explains this mistletoe use)  The Christmas tree is of more recent origin.

 

Yule
  Beneath the tree of light and life,
  a blessing at this season of Yule!
  To all that sit at my hearth,
  today we are brothers, we are family,
  and I drink to your health!
  Today is a day to offer hospitality
  to all that cross my threshold
  in the name of the season.










 

Freyr


Freyr q

Appeal: love, fertility, wealth, farmers, grocery stores, protection, bakers, light, happiness, rain, marriages

Freyr (Frey, Ing or Lord) is one of the most important Gods of Norse paganism. Freyr was associated with sacral kingship, virility and prosperity, with sunshine and fair weather, animals and was pictured as a phallic fertility God.

In the Icelandic books the Poetic Edda, Freyr is presented as one of the Vanir, the son of the sea God Njord, brother of the Goddess Freya. The Gods gave him Alfheim, the realm of the Elves, as a teething present. He rides the shining dwarf-made boar Gullinbursti and possesses the ship Skidbladnir which always has a favorable breeze and can be folded together and carried in a pouch when it is not being used.

The most extensive surviving Freyr myth relates Freyr's falling in love with the female jotunn (giantess) Gerd.  Freyr immediately falls in love with her and becomes depressed and taciturn.  After a period of brooding, he consents to talk to Skirnir, his foot-page.  He tells Skirnir that he has fallen in love with a beautiful woman and thinks he will die if he cannot have her.  Eventually, she becomes his wife but first Freyr has to give away his sword which fights on its own, "wise be he who wields it". Although deprived of this weapon, Freyr defeats the jotun Beli with an antler.  Many scholars interpret the story as a legend about the wooing of the frozen Earth (Gerd) by the warm Sun (Freyr).  However, lacking his sword, Freyr will be killed by the fire jotun Surt during the events of Ragnarok. 

Written around 1080, Adam claimed to have access to first-hand accounts on pagan practices in Sweden. He refers to Freyr with the Latinized name Fricco and mentions that an image of him at Skara was destroyed by a Christian missionary. His description of the Temple at Uppsala gives some details on the God.

"In this temple, entirely decked out in gold, the people worship the statues of three Gods in such wise that the mightiest of them, Thor, occupies a throne in the middle of the chamber; Woden and Fricco have places on either side. The significance of these Gods is as follows: Thor, they say, presides over the air, which governs the thunder and lightning, the winds and rains, fair weather and crops. The other, Woden—that is, the Furious—carries on war and imparts to man strength against his enemies. The third is Fricco, who bestows peace and pleasure on mortals. His likeness, too, they fashion with an immense phallus."

Gesta Hammaburgensis 26, Tschan's translation
In the Gylfaginning section of his Prose Edda, Snorri introduces Freyr as one of the major Gods.

Njord in Noatun begot afterward two children: the son was called Freyr and the daughter Freya; they were fair of face and mighty. Freyr is the most renowned of the Æsir; he rules over the rain and the shining of the sun, and therewithal the fruit of the earth; and it is good to call on him for fruitful seasons and peace. He governs also the prosperity of men.

Gylfaginning XXIV, Brodeur's translation

In winter, a sacrificial boar was offered up to the God Freyr. The pagan custom is still remembered in many countries at Yule or Christmas where roast pig, pork or ham may be the festive dish.  In Sweden, Yuletide cakes are baked in the shape of a boar.


Praise Be To Freyr!

Praise Be To Freyr!
To Life, to Spirit, to Freedom!
Praise be Green Hills and Verdant Valleys Forever!
Fertility to the Fields and Flowers!
The Birds and Bees!
The Deer and the Does!
Praise to Dancing and Drinking!
To Frolicksome Freols!
Lifter of Hefts and Hafts!
Unbinder! Lord of the Elf Fields!
May my life be a tribute to the Freedom you o'ersee!
May my life be filled with your festivity and frith!
Praise Be to Freyr!
The Mighty Elf Lord of Freedom!

 














Monday, December 3, 2012

Rites of Passage: Birth

These rituals were connected to the change of status and transitions in life a person experiences, such as birth, marriage and death.






Birth is the act or process of bearing or bringing forth offspring. The offspring is brought forth from the mother. The time of human birth is defined as the time at which the fetus comes out of the mother's womb into the World.  In 2010, more newborns arrived in September than in any other month.
 

Until very recent times, a birth was dangerous to the mother as well as the child. Thus rites of birth were common in many pre-modern societies.  In the Viking Age, people would pray to the Goddesses Frigg and Freya, and sing ritual songs to protect the mother and the child.  Fate played a huge role in Norse culture and was determined at the moment of birth by the Norns.

Norse lore also includes other tales about birth:  A 9-headed troll was born through a giant's feet.  -  Dwarves were born from the maggots in a giant's rotten corpse.  -  The first man and woman were made from trees.  -  A male God changed into a female horse and gave birth to an eight-legged horse.

Human women were the only care-givers at a birth, and a midwife or official witness of a birth was termed bjargrýgr, "helping-woman".  The assistance rendered by the bjargrýgr or midwife went beyond the basic mechanics of delivery. The bjargrýgr was also responsible for magical assistance to ease the birth such as runes, herbs or songs.   A description of the little that is known about childbirth during the Viking Age is summarized by Jenny Jochens:


"The birth itself was expressed in the image of the woman 'becoming lighter'. What little is revealed about the birth process suggests that delivery techniques were universal and changed little over time. Only women were present. The normal birth position was for the woman to kneel on the floor, with helpers ready at her knees or supporting her arms. As the birth progressed, she would shift to a knee-elbow position, and the child would be received from behind. Runes and songs were offered as age-old remedies for difficult births, probably performed by a bjargrýgr trained through experience and apprenticeship. Many stories of birth include prolonged and difficult births, dismemberment of infants, and problems with lactation." (Women in Old Norse Society)


Nine nights after birth, the child had to be recognized by the father of the household. He placed the child on his knee while sitting in a high seat.  Putting the child on the knee of the father confirmed his or her status as a member of the clan and bestowed the rights connected to this status.  The child could no longer be killed or exposed by the parents, without being considered murder.  Water was sprinkled on the child, it was named and thus admitted into the family.  There are accounts of guests being invited to bring gifts and wish the child well.

Children were often named after deceased ancestors and the names of deities could be a part of the name - Alfhild, Herdis, Njorth.  People thought certain traits were connected to certain names and that these traits were carried on when the names were re-used by new generations.  This was part of the ancestor worship.  

The life expectancy at birth was about 20 years.  Half of those who survived birth lived only to their seventh year.  Children under the age of 15 made up nearly half of the population. Of those that reached the age of 20, about half reached the age of 50.  At some points of history, perhaps 15 percent of the total population was 50 years or older.  And only 1 to 3 percent of population was over 60 years old.
A typical woman probably bore 7 infants during her lifetime, 29 months apart on average.  Babies and small children automatically became the custody of the mother following a divorce.  During pregnancy, women were expected to continue working.  After the child's birth, the mother typically returned to work with little delay. Evidence suggests that mothers nursed their children until the age of 2 years, which may have dictated the interval between the births of a couple's children.  A typical couple probably had 2 or 3 living children at any one time.  Few parents lived to see their children marry.  And fewer lived to see their first grandchild.  Three generation families were rare.

When one member of a couple died, the other remarried quickly.  It was probably difficult for a single person to run a household alone.  During the Norse era, multiple families lived in the same longhouse, working the same farm holding.  This clan played an important role in shaping Norse society and its laws and customs and was the standard unit of society. A household might consist not only several husband-and-wife couples and their children, but also the families of servants and bondsmen.  During this time, the typical household size was probably ten to twenty people.
 
 

The Mother Goddess is fertility and growth.  The Goddess in her Mother aspect is the bearer of children and a sexual being.  Some Wiccans believe that a small group of semiprecious stones will help ease the pain of natural childbirth and delivery.  Some holistic health or pagan shops may be able to order a charm or bracelet that incorporates these stones together or other herbs.  If you don't have enough time to custom order, you can always place the loose stones in a small, sealed pouch that can be held during delivery.  Using a pouch like this can also serve as a focus object during childbirth, similar to the techniques used in Lamaze.  Once the pouch is no longer needed, the stones should be passed along to someone else who is pregnant or trying to conceive.

Many Wiccan parents choose to have a special ceremony to mark the child's naming. This is usually held outdoors, weather permitting, about a week after the birth. In addition to officially giving the child his or her name, it's also an opportunity for the parents to officially pledge their love and loyalty to the child.
 
 

A birthday is a day or anniversary where a person celebrates his or her date of birth. Birthdays are celebrated in numerous cultures, often with a gift, party or rite of passage. Although the major religions celebrate the birth of their founders (e.g., Buddha's Birthday), Christmas – which is celebrated widely by Christians and non-Christians alike – is the most prominent example. In contrast, certain religious groups, as is the case with Jehovah's Witnesses, express opposition to the very idea of celebrating birthdays.

Catholic, Orthodox, Anglican, Methodist and Lutheran Churches teach that baptism is a sacrament that has actual spiritual effects and certain key criteria must be complied with for it to be valid.  Christians consider Jesus to have instituted the sacrament of baptism.  It is usually believed to be essential for salvation.  They are baptized in water, in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

Although baptism is not used in Jewish rituals, Tvilah does have some similarities. The act of immersion in natural sourced water for purification is specific for certain circumstances.  Of all of the commandments in Judaism, the brit milah (Covenant of Circumcision) is probably the one most universally observed.

Many cultures practice or have practiced initiation rites, with or without the use of water, including the ancient Egyptian, the Hebraic/Jewish, the Babylonian, the Mayan, and the Norse cultures.  The initiation done in the Bapedi tribe of South Africa is normally regarded as a stage where a boy is to be taught manhood and a girl to be taught womanhood.  A man will not be allowed to marry or have any special relationship with a woman who did not go to an initiation, because she is not considered to be a woman.

Birth in the 21st century can still be dangerous.  And birthdays many or may not be honored in various ways.  Either way it is a rite to at least remember and research.




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"As I prepare myself for the delivery of my baby, I am calm, serene and relaxed. God is in charge and Goddess is with me and my baby. Every person and every situation connected with this birth is in tune with the Divines orderly direction, and everything is perfectly timed.

After the delivery, every part of my body will be restored to perfection. Filled with thankfulness and joy, I rest. The power of the Divines has brought forth my perfect baby.”

And so it is.